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Posted by Bent Stigsen on 06/13/06 14:27
Markus Ernst wrote:
> Craig Morrison schrieb:
>
> [...]
>
>> Why don't you just say that you don't know?
>>
>> Or is it that you just feel a need to be verbose for no reason?
>>
>> Here is the entire mess of code.. You tell me why the notice is thrown
>> if you can, otherwise shut the fuck up.
>
> You might understand that people will not take their time to answer your
> questions if you stick to this style of posting.
It doesn't make people shut up either. :)
To be fair, his original post was quite polite.
> Also keep in mind that
> newsgroups are archieved by Google, and thus everything you write will
> be accessible in the future for anybody having any interests about your
> personality, i.e. recruiters of companies where you apply for a job.
>
>
http://groups.google.ch/groups/profile?enc_user=AcliMxsAAADYssPP5XuA7Fx9WO2vLWuFafi1F26NDuwKz324rebT9g
> shows that you are quite new to newsgroups; you might want to read some
> pages on netiquette. (I remember to have made some postings I am not
> proud of when I first started to post to newsgroups, so I know what I
> write about.)
When going head first into a mass of people from widely different cultures,
many trying to convey their message in a foreign language, then I think
some initial conflicts is what can be expected, regardless of the person.
And people change. If someone made some mistakes and they learned from them,
then that's a sign of a very good quality in a person.
IMO, people who don't understand that, are not worth pleasing or working
for.
> If you think some people are being rude in their comments,
> then keep in mind that it is you asking for help, and they tell you that
> you do this the wrong way - being told about the rules of usenet is a
> form of help you should appreciate. If you want to get help on your
> problems for free, you have to respect those people reading and
> commenting your posts.
I think his basic problem was, that he didn't expect help. In his mind, his
scripts didn't have problems, rather PHP had a strange behavior.
If only he had put a little effort into trying to understand what we were
trying to say. I thought your first suggestion was a clear and polite hint
that he should track down the problem in his code.
Anyway, it's not like one can demand what one wants, only hope to get what
one needs.
/Bent
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