Posted by Jerry Stuckle on 07/25/07 10:46

Sanders Kaufman wrote:
> Jerry Stuckle wrote:
>> Sanders Kaufman wrote:
>
>>>>> I ain't real good at following orders, unless there's a reason.
>>>>
>>>> Then don't bother asking for any more advice.
>>>
>>> I see your blood sugar is running low again.
>>
>> Not at all. I just don't like spending my time trying to explain
>> something to have it ignored. This is volunteer work - and if my
>> comments are going to be argued with and/or ignored, I'm not going to
>> bother making any.
>
> When you say I should do a thing, without explaining why and then get in
> a snit when I ask why, that's not giving advice.
>
> I realize that you in particular have a strong need for validation, and
> that having people do what you say without asking why provides you with
> a great deal of validation.
>
> But you need to realize that I'm neither your employee, nor your shrink.
> I'm just a guy who says "thanks" when you're helpful and dismisses you
> when your emotional problems overwhelm your technical expertise.
>
>
>

Several people have explained WHY. You just are too set in your mind to
see it.

And no, I have NO need for validation. I'm well beyond that. But I
have no need to put up with your crap, either.

It's interesting - the people most in need of validation are the ones
who claim others do so.

Sorry, I'm no longer your kicking can.


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