Posted by danielcarrington4 on 10/13/07 22:17

On Oct 13, 2:55 pm, Jerry Stuckle <jstuck...@attglobal.net> wrote:
> danielcarringt...@gmail.com wrote:
> > On Oct 13, 2:06 pm, Jerry Stuckle <jstuck...@attglobal.net> wrote:
> >> danielcarringt...@gmail.com wrote:
> >>> On Oct 12, 9:37 pm, Jerry Stuckle <jstuck...@attglobal.net> wrote:
> >>> And there is the disconnect. Spending a few minutes, putting forth
> >>> marginal effort towards a response is fine and dandy ... but a couple
> >>> of hours???
> >> That's your opinion. Others have different ones. Heck, if I had the
> >> time right now I'd do it. But I'm way too busy.
>
> > It's quite possible that it's a matter of perception ... but I do
> > believe that the average psychiatrist would agree with me.
>
> I doubt you can speak for a psychiatrist (unless you are one, that is).

I don't practice clinically, but I do have a degree in psychology,
yes. I would assume that counts?

Of course, my degree is from VA Tech, so perhaps that might not be
good enough? :)
>
> > Too busy? Now why is that? Could it be because you have higher
> > priorities than goosing OMH? Could it be that you'd really prefer to
> > devote more time to ... say, your family? Your business? Your bowel
> > movements? ANYthing other than OMH?
>
> I have my priorities. And right now they keep me busy. But that
> doesn't mean if I had the time I wouldn't create a site about Matthew.
>
> You do what you want with your free time - but let others do what they want.

One of the first rules here (I've gathered) is that anyone can do what
they want. But others have the innate "right" to judge them for it,
right or wrong.

If you can judge OMH for being a prick, I can judge nutjobs like
newbie for being obsessive and fruit loopy.
>
> > That prioritizing would indicate a healthy mental state. Placing
> > "goosing" OMH above any of those things would be ... unhealthy, to say
> > the least.
>
> >> Who cares if it means anything to him or not? Actually, I suspect it
> >> hurts him more than he's letting on.
>
> > Then I think you're a bit on the arrogant side. :)
>
> And why is that? Heck - he got upset when I insinuated (without
> actually saying it) that he was impotent.

Apparently, he's had people hating him for YEARS. And I really doubt
that you're the first to insult his manhood. But for SOME reason, you
think that YOU saying that (really, one of the oldest insults known to
man) would hurt him????

Please, do give me a break.
>
> >>> So what the hell good is creating a web site just to tickle his ass
> >>> gonna do?? Not a damn thing -except to prove how much he's crawled up
> >>> your ass.
> >> Naw, it feels good.
>
> > Some would say that shooting heroin feels good, too. Doesn't mean it's
> > healthy or worthwhile.
>
> And who's to say there's any harm in putting up a site like that? No
> one except you.

My tiny degree in psychology would SUSPECT that newbie has a few
issues. But my burgeoning grasp of how things are done here in "teh
usenets" (to coin a OMH phrase) decrees that, the more you whine,
bitch and scream, the more "owned" you are. The more time that you
spend worrying over insults gotten, the more owned you are. The more
"revenge" you seek to inflict, the more "humiliation" you attempt to
serve, the more owned you are.

It's a matter of pride, I would say. And newbie has lost ALL his. So
has "Personalized" but not as badly, perhaps.

I think it can be easily likened to the typical bully situation one
experiences in school. The big mean football player pushes you down in
gym class. What do you do?

A. Push him back. Harder.
B. Go tell Mommy and Daddums
C. Write mean things about him on the bathroom wall.

I would say that B & C is what many people (including newbie) do who
feel impotent and slighted.

And if you're not careful, you'll fall into that trap as well. Only
because you seem to agree that answer "C" is the best course of action
(likening "writing on the bathroom wall" to putting up a site).

>
>
>
> >>>> But therein lies your misconception. I don't see him "obsessing" over
> >>>> anyone. Just putting together a quick site to give OMH a taste of his
> >>>> own medicine.
> >>> Too much effort, and too little pay-off. And that's WHY he IS
> >>> obsessing. When you invest the time, you want to get a decent return
> >>> on your efforts. And even a moron can see that it means NOTHING to OMH
> >>> -therefore, the return is ZERO.
> >> Whatever.
>
> > See the last line.
> >>> Maybe that's why you're still a contractor. :)
> >> I am not a contractor has never have been. I have been running a very
> >> successful consulting business for over 17 years. But you obviously
> >> don't understand that.
>
> > I understand that I "employ" several "consultants" as contractors. To
> > the one paying the bills, a consultant is just a more expensive
> > contractor. You just have better negotiation skills. :)
>
> Then you don't know the difference between a consultant and a
> contractor. There is a much bigger difference. But that's off topic here.

Not necessarily to the one paying the bills. To think otherwise,
you're fooling yourself.
>
> > But then, I am a bit on the jaded side.
> >>> We could discuss this and debate this all dday, but even THAT is more
> >>> time than I'd care to spend on the subject. Y'know, the whole
> >>> effort=return thing.
> >> Whatever. Then why even bring it up?
>
> > *adopts patient tone*
> > Because I'm trying to be kind and donate a clue to the clueless.
>
> > Trust me .. before this is through, you'll thank me. :)
>
> Thanks, but we'll all big boys here. At least all except Matthew
> Moulton, who's just a poor 27-year-old who works as a greeter for Wal
> Mart and lives with his mommy.


> And all this crap about buying a house?
> ROFLMAO!

NOW, we agree on something. :)
>
>
>
>
>
> >>>>>> --
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> >>>>>> Remove the "x" from my email address
> >>>>>> Jerry Stuckle
> >>>>>> JDS Computer Training Corp.
> >>>>>> jstuck...@attglobal.net
> >>>>>> ==================
> >>>> --
> >>>> ==================
> >>>> Remove the "x" from my email address
> >>>> Jerry Stuckle
> >>>> JDS Computer Training Corp.
> >>>> jstuck...@attglobal.net
> >>>> ==================
> >> --
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> >> Remove the "x" from my email address
> >> Jerry Stuckle
> >> JDS Computer Training Corp.
> >> jstuck...@attglobal.net
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> Remove the "x" from my email address
> Jerry Stuckle
> JDS Computer Training Corp.
> jstuck...@attglobal.net
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